RE: How to Improve Your Interpersonal Communication
Hi,
I am glad that you requested me to advice you on how to enhance your communication skills. I must recommend the both of you for taking this step, since it is a good start for your life together. I would like to give you some simple concepts that I hope would be of great assistance to you.
First of all, it is important that as you communicate, choose your words carefully. This is mainly because the kinds of words that you use could have an effect on your partner, regardless of whether they are meant for good or not. Second, it is important to be defined to your partner. As noted by MacLeod (2008), it is important for your partner to understand who you are so that he/she can know how best to deal with you. As such, do not mask yourself. Let your partner know who you are by your personal concept.
You should also master the art of communication or what is otherwise called the emotional intelligence (Helpguide, 2012). By this I mean that you should be aware of what to say, when to say it an in what manner to say it. This would go a long way in avoiding conflicts and miscommunication between the two of you.
At last, I would lie to caution you against some practices that can ruin your communication. For instance, never assume you know what your partner wants to say. Rather, be a good listener and let the other one express him/herself to their satisfaction. Also, avoid straying or snubbing when your partner wants to talk. Always maintain eye contact and show understanding. Only then can you enhance your communication (Skills You Need, 2012).
I hope you find this helpful. Should you need more advice, you can always contact me. I wish you a happy life together.
Mike O’Brien Help Guide. (2012). Emotional Intelligence. Retrieved on 11th May 2012 from http://www.helpguide.org/mental/eq5_raising_emotional_intelligence.htm
McLeod, S. (2008). The Self Concept in Psychology. Retrieved on 11th May 2012 from http://www.simplypsychology.org/self-concept.html
Skills You Need. (2012). Barriers to Effective Communication. Retrieved on 11th May 2012 from http://www.skillsyouneed.co.uk/IPS/Barriers_Communication.html
