Identity
Identity
Upon entering college it is difficult to know who to trust. This is important in developing an identity that will allow for growth. Many college students attempt to keep the same identity they created in high school, but discover that such a persona is no longer adequate for their needs. In order to adapt students must form a new identity from their own experiences and perceptions.
Essential Facts
Many people choose not to think upon the issue of identity. College is for learning in the minds of many, not finding themselves. Unfortunately this ignores the very real and essential changes that occur in the life of a college student. In order to move forward a student must establish a solid identity.
Additional Information
The “quarter-life crisis” is very real. It is the point in an individual’s life when they look
back upon what they have and have not done. If no identity is established a crisis occurs, which
can be followed by a breakdown. Though often dismissed as melodrama, such a lack of identity
can lead to very serious psychological issues.
Key Actors in the Case
The student is the main character in such a scenario. Therapists, counselors, and other such support methods are common as major players. Family and friends are support, backup if needed. Each player has their part, and each part is equally important.
Relevant Theory
Identity development theories allow practitioners of student affairs to deduce how a student will “find themselves”. It is takes time and patience to monitor and is dependent upon the student. In advancing themselves through their achievements it is seen that students build their identity. Through personal experience and social interaction students will develop their own identity.
Alternative Solutions
Intervention for those who feel they are going nowhere can come in many forms. Social clubs can offer a pleasant atmosphere to learn and grow. Study groups give a student the chance to meet others as well, and even continued interactions with friends and family can help to develop a student’s identity. There are many ways in which a student can grow.
Advantages and Disadvantages of Each Alternative
Social clubs can be a great way to meet new people, but can also be misleading and more focused on personal gratification than growth. Study groups are helpful for classes, but are not always the lasting bonds that are needed. Interaction with family and friends is at times vital but not always possible due to distance (Stage & Hubbard, 2012).
An identity is important for a student to develop. Social interaction and the achievement of goals are crucial to this development. Finding a mentor is highly recommended, and wise.
References
Stage, F.K., & Hubbard, S.M. (Eds.). (2012). Linking Theory to Practice - Case Studies for
Working with College Students (3rd Edition). Abingdon-on-Thames, UK: Routledge.
