Communication
Communication is irreversible in a way that once words are said they cannot be taken back. I also faced a situation of irreversible communication, and I wished I could erase all the words that I spoke at that time. The situation or example is when my mother and I were in an argument regarding mu habit of not fulfilling my responsibility of taking care of my things in the house. My mother complaint that I was very lazy, did not pick up the things, and did not put them in proper places. She said that it was not her job to do all these tasks for me. However, I told my mother and tried to convince her that I would do it once I was done with my other tasks, as I have several things to do, and picking up the things, and placing them in their places was not a big task for me. I would do it in just a few seconds. She said, I know you, and you will never pick the things, and they will remain as they are’. I got irritated and angrily said to my mom, ‘leave the room, I hate you, you always show anger, and never encourage me for any work’. Generally, I avoid the word Hate, because in my opinion this is a very strong word, and this word is not appropriate for an individual who is close to heart. My mother didn’t say any word, and she left the room. The long term consequence of this situation was that my mother didn’t talked to me, and also she did not advised me on any matter. After sometime, when my mother left the room, I felt so ashamed that I wanted to take all my words back. But, there is no use to cry over split milk. After that I realized that thinking should be ensured before saying any word.
