Human sexual behaviors encompass actions that bring sexual stimulation between two or more individuals (Garcia 42). Sexual behaviors may as well affect the uninvolved individuals. The issue of human sexual behavior is complex because various factors are involved before and after sexual activity. Individuals of different sexes also depict their sexual behaviors and activities differently. After taking the course, my stance, as a sexual being, has changed and evolved for the better. I understand that reproductive and sexual wellbeing are essential if I am to achieve a safe, responsible, and fulfilling sexual life. Sexual wellbeing can only be realized when one adopts a positive approach towards sexuality while striving to understand the complex factors that play a significant role in shaping human sexual behaviors (Lehmiller 60).
My feelings about sexuality have improved significantly. I now understand that there are many factors that influence my feelings as a sexual being, my relationships with other people, and the way I view myself. The sex hormones that are produced by the body affect a person’s sexual feelings (Garcia 76). The sexual feelings push me to develop intense sexual desire towards the person I love. I am attracted to the love of my life, and it is quite an exciting feeling. Human sexuality remains a broad subject area that has many theories and perspectives. Some individuals think that it is an inborn and God-given gift. Human sexuality is a controversial issue that requires further research to help people understand it better. Psychologists and social scientists that conduct research on human sexuality have developed interesting theories that attempt to explain the various factors that influence sexual behaviors. The survival of human race will be under threat if heterosexual intercourse ceases to exist (Lehmiller 96). Different cultures have their beliefs on sexuality that shape the sexual behaviors of their members. For example, many cultures across the globe discourage masturbation, thus making it appear as a bad and undesirable thing that people should not engage in.
Some theorists maintain that biological and evolutionary factors influence mating, love, sexual orientation, and sexual behavior. The other significant determinants are cultural and psychological factors that influence patterns of sexual behavior. Socio-biologists maintain that male-female differences in sexual behaviors evolved over time as a response to their survival needs. The course taught me how the understanding of sexual behavior and human sexuality has changed over time. I now understand the way psychological changes occur during sexual activity. I also feel that understanding sexual behaviors, as well as human sexuality, are essential for improving sexual health. To improve and bolster my sexual health, I will strive to improve the social, emotional, mental, and physical aspects of my sexual behaviors.
Work Cited
Garcia, Justin. Evolution and Human Sexual Behavior. New York: Prentice Hall, 2013. Print.
Lehmiller, Justin. The Psychology of Human Sexuality. Cornwall: Polity, 2014. Print.
