Perfect Model Essay On Toy Store For Big Kids

When given the assignment to do something associated with human sexuality, I chose to take a field trip to the adult book store or as I like to call it- the big kid toy store. I actually told some of my friends about the assignment because of the “taboo” nature of the class and the field trip, surprisingly some of them decided to tag along. I had not originally thought of going with anyone, because it’s just not the type of thing you ask your buddies to do with you. However, my mentioning the field trip and paper turned the trip into a “that should be entertaining” response from several of my friends. So, there you have it, my sexual field trip would involve my small group of friends and I off to check out a sex shop. Luckily in this group of the seven of us, two of them were girls who helped keep the group tame.
Here it is a Wednesday evening, not too late in the day, I believe it is after 5pm and we decide to go before heading out to dinner. This way we can have an entertaining subject to talk about over dinner. We hop into two different cars and drive into town where the shop is located while joking the entire time. One of our friends has never been to a sex shop and although I had never been to one, I play along like it was not my first time. I am not too sure why I felt the need to lie, because looking back it seems a bit obnoxious that I felt the need to seem more experienced than I am. I wonder why there is this stigma associated with any topics having to do with sex.
When we arrive I lead the way feeling a sense of obligation for being the one whose idea it was in the first place. Oddly enough, I was a bit nervous or uncomfortable about what I would be seeing there and how my friends and I would react. Now that we were here I regretted telling them that I had been to a sex shop before because what if the look on my face told them the truth about this being my first time. I would have to say the entire trip from the car to the inside of the sex shop results in an awkward feeling walk as I get super weird in my head about this whole field trip.
Walking into the store and looking up was quite a shocking moment for me and again, I wish I would have just told my friends the truth. Because now, I had to do my best to act like I wasn’t surprised when in reality I was really blown away. Sure I had a pretty good idea of the variety of sex toys that existed, but I did not really understand the magnitude of how big the sex toy business would be. From the displays and products that I could see all around me I was floored by the creativity that goes into some of these items. Who knew that there would be this much to add to one’s sex life? Everywhere I look I was seeing breasts with pasties, dildos the size of a hammer, and things that I just was not prepared to know about. I began to feel quite naïve about what I thought I knew about sex, there is this whole world out there full of a ton whole lot of unique ideas that people have when it comes to spicing up their sex lives.
There are several items that I still cannot get out of my mind from that trip, which I want to discuss next. These items were comparable to the most fascinating paintings had this trip been to an art museum. The first item that I want to talk about is the vagina model. This “thing” looked like someone chopped off a girl at about the belly button point up to the upper thigh area. This “toy” had a very realistic looking vagina, as well as a rectum. It really was amusing and overwhelming to see something like this and think, “Who buys this stuff?” As I write this paper I am still wondering who these individuals are that buy the midsection of a doll to have sex with?
The next two items I had heard of but still was left in shock as I think back on the field trip. One of the things was this gigantic dildo that was so large that I honestly could not imagine how it could fit inside a person. Whether it was going to be used by a woman or man, I cannot imagine how frightening it would be to have something that looked like a large arm put inside oneself. The other thing that I have heard of but just do not understand was the anal beads. I cannot understand why placing several rather large marble pieces into one’s anal cavity would feel good. Maybe I am just too experienced in my own life still to fully appreciate some of the things I saw.
After we leave the shop, we go out to grab a bite to eat and could not stop laughing and acting fairly immature about the whole “field trip.” I think everyone had a pretty good time and whether it was someone’s first trip to a sex shop or their tenth trip, we all saw some things we could not stop talking about. Overall, I can see why a field trip of this nature has been assigned as a class paper because there definitely is a lot to learn about and understand about human sexuality and how people respond. Fortunately, I went, had some moments of discomfort, saw a lot of shocking things that I did not know existed, and was able to laugh and learn a little something about life that I wasn’t necessarily anticipating.