Personality is a useful tool in every developing person. Personality helps individuals in the areas of self-development. I believe individuals learning and applying the theories that personality deal with personality type are acquitting the most useful tool in social life. Personality should be used as a discovery tool rather than a tool for creating influence to cause an excuse or a specific behavior. Personality includes responding fruitfully to what occurred and being able to take extra step in the communication process just as Stewart puts it. We have to acknowledge that communication process is convoluted, elaborate and pretty complex. However, despite the events that proceeds or come after the event, or despite the effects, individuals do have the option to take the next step just as Stewart puts it (Stewart, 2011).
Personality blend calls for a number of factors to be considered. But first, I believe conflict management is a huge success in being a whole rounded personality. We think people often see the problems from both sides as we do, though this is never a reality. As such, we need no to care about being popular but rather the best way to face the problems head on and solve them. I believe to improve this situation and be able to be a better conflict manager includes never being afraid of conflicts. Likewise, I should never be quickly to make decisions that I may not be sure about its actions and impacts. This therefore includes responding best to those with plans that includes taking things slowly and methodologically. I thus need to work on organizing things and being a good team player who never takes credit for everything but rather make sure that I do a great job to involve everyone and be active conflict resolution manager (Peterson, 2007).
Another admirable quality and a personality that is worth calculating is that of strength and uniqueness. In order to work on this, I should develop a strong sense of optimism that involves an inward and outward confidence and never be timid in either way. This process will involve the idea that is explored by Mels of overuses and abuses. I think in this essence, I need to work on my relation with people and never be too easy going to make people take advantage of me. I should also be able to stand out in crowd and never be intimidated to stand out and be realized in the crowd. This includes being able to speak out in large crowds as I should believe that my idea is just as valued as any other individual’s ideas (Mels 2008). This will prevent me from working under covers or behind the scenes and in that case I will be able to seek solutions to problems and thereby improve my ability to interact and integrate with others.
Personality is about how individuals respond to the internal conversations and how individuals move over or debate on other person’s point of view just as Mel puts it. Personality helps move relationship and enables individual create bond with one another. I believe that in this case, I need to reframe and analyze how I can be useful in a conversation and help influence individuals to my point of view.
In conclusion therefore, I need to know that in order to stand out in many ways; I have to speak out without seeking to be the center of attention. People will always respect a strong conviction and sensitive spirit. Therefore I need to up my enthusiasm and exhibit all the good traits I have. I also need to up my courage of speaking up in large groups whenever possible to be able to share my dreams and warmth with others.
References.
Carbonell, Mels (2008).How to solve the people puzzle.
John, Stewart (2011). Bridges not wall.
Peterson, James (2007). Why don’t we listen better.
