Communication
In modern society everybody has the opportunity to get everything he or she wants. The porn is not the exception. Today you can take your laptop, search on the Internet and find any kind of pornography you like. But it goes without saying that it influences greatly our society and every person separately. What is the influence of the porn on the society? What is the influence of the porn on the individual? This issue should be clarified as from the first point of view the pornography may have only bad influence.
First of all I would like to speak about the detrimental influence of the pornography of the society. Watching porn people imagine ideal sex which usually does not occur in real life and in future they have some problems with their sexual life. It can be as physical so psychological problems. Also in porn we usually observe good-looking girls, who do everything boys want, sometimes the boys can be cruel but the girls do not pay attention to it. That is a real problem as men in real life could think that it is really could be a norm of the relations between women and men. So the porn teaches that women are just the sexual objects. [Andrews] Some kinds of porn where there are aggressive behavior or unethical actions really can violate social norms. On the one hand pornography affects morality but on the other hand it is a kind of commerce and many people have jobs. Of course, they are not forced to do it, a lot of them give interview, say that they like it, because they can try a lot in sex. But still I believe that more minuses on society in porn than pluses. In addition to it, people who watch porn have some pleasure, but they do not notice that they get lower self-esteem and because of sex-oriented businesses the crimes are growing. But still there is only one good side of the porn for me. If the couple has some problems in sexual life or lost interest or desire, porn really can help. To heat the fire in the couple again. [Langley] But there are also two sides of influence of porn on the individual.
First of all I would like to talk about the teenagers, who watch the pornography, maybe the most often. When they watch for the first time porn they feel uncomfortable, they have sexual uncertainty. But they very soon become addicted to watching the porn, and usually for them is difficult to make relations in real life so they often masturbate. Also there is such a thing that when the individual is addicted to the porn he very soon becomes bored with usual porn, so he starts looking for more perverse forms of it. [Fagan] Besides, men who watch the porn constantly, they are more tolerant to abnormal sex, aggressive sex, so they can abuse their wives or girlfriends and even do not pretend to do it. By the way because of pornography people can have occasional sexual relations and then undesired children or venereal illnesses. All of these problems are caused by the suppleness which is shown in the porn so the people think they could do the same things. But in fact porn is a film, and everything is a fake. No one knows how long this or that sex act was shooting, maybe the whole day or more, and a normal sex act in real life lasts for about fifteen or twenty minutes only. But still there is something good in porn. If you are too shy to ask your parents how to do this or that, you can learn some elements from the video. Of course, it will be not practical part, but still you can watch something and that is better than just to hear. Or if you want to surprise your partner, you also can find something interesting in the pornography, but be sure that your partner will like it and will not escape from you when you bring handcuffs, lash and wax.
Works cited
Langley, Liz. Why Porn can be good for you (and Society). 23 Feb. 2012. Web. 1 Aug. 2016.
Fagan, Patrick F. The Effects of Pornography on Individuals, Marriage, Family and Community. Web. 1 Aug. 2016.
Andrews, Caron C. 8 Harmful Effects of Pornography on Individuals. 18 Mar. Web. 1 Aug. 2016.
