Introduction
“Marriage is the union of two souls all set to tread the journey of life, hand in hand”. This is what truly makes marriage a wonderful experience. The vows, the dance, the music, the various traditions, all lead to the sanctity of a life, where one has someone to call one’s own. It not only brings happiness but also instills a sense of responsibility. So, marriage is the means by which two souls tie the knot of being together, and draw their dreams, which culminates to one common goal. And, this goal is happiness, love, respect, care, and kindness for each other. All in all, it gives a deep sense of satisfaction as one knows that no matter what happens, there is someone by one’s side for life-long. And the actual reason behind this sense of satisfaction is the bond of love, respect, and care in life.
Body
Love is the magical word which automatically finds the solution to all the problems, and it helps one navigate smoothly through the ups and downs of life. In order to establish a happily married life, we need to become an owner, or “carrier” of a true love, grateful for freedom of manifestation of feelings, and able to be self-controlled. So, the prime question that arises is - What true love means? It is to be borne in mind that it is not a physical passion or lust, which demands immediate satisfaction. But, true love can be defined as an invisible force uniting two or more people in a harmonious integrity of thoughts, minds, body, and souls. It is shown in thoughts, words and affairs of the person directed at the benefits of others, even at the price of “I”. Therefore, true love, however, cannot be understood from words, books, or educational institutions. Believe it or not, it can be understood only on a basis of life experience. Parents inhaled in us life and love. So, finding the experience from the hearts of children, we form the ability to perceive and give true love. From the child’s heart, the relations gradually develop with brothers and sisters, and, eventually, from these relations in love have to grow the mature individuals, capable to become true spouses and true parents. Successfully finishing stages demanding from us transition to new level of devotion and service, we accumulate the maturity. Otherwise, we develop in ourselves the ability to love other people, to care about them, being beyond our own needs and desires.
Conclusion
Based on the aforesaid facts and reasons of marriage and its aesthetic values in lfe, I, as a man and future head of the family, truly believe that love is the force that units people. And a starting point in love is the ethical unity among people by stitching together two known or unknown hearts. So, we distinctly recognize in ourselves two sides of our existence. On the one hand, there is a presence of our body having the physical desires, and, on the other hand, there is a deep sense of conscience, spirituality, and aesthetic relationship to build the foundation of our character. Believe it or not, our best qualities are shown when we own our physical desires. Besides, marriage is the means which gives reason, strength, and meaning to one’s life. It gives the reason to be happy, the strength to face challenges together, and the meaning to live life with spiritual unity through physical touch, and enjoy the satisfaction of togetherness. This gives enough reason to believe that everyone wants to come back to that special someone after their hectic working schedule when one gets into the bond of marriage. So, beyond the shadow of any doubts, I am have firm belief that marriage is the means to get that special someone in one’s life. And truly speaking, this is the reason why I want to get married to make my life happy, peaceful, and purposeful.
Works Cited
- Ford. C. John. MARRIAGE: ITS MEANING AND PURPOSES. Retrieved from http://www.ts.mu.edu/readers/content/pdf/3/3.3/3.3.2.pdf
- Earp D. Brian , Sandberg, A. , and Savulescu, Julian. Philosophy & Technology: Natural Selection, Childrearing, and the Ethics of Marriage (and Divorce): Building a Case for the Neuroenhancement of Human Relationships. Retrieved from http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3510696/
